What is good sex pain for women?
It depends on the woman.
For plenty of women, no pain during sex is ‘good pain', because they don't enjoy pain with their pleasure.
For others a small amount of playful pain like a nibbled ear, a hickie/lovebite or a gentle tug of their hair or tap on the bottom is fun, but anything more isn't.
For women into more serious pain they may request a slap across the face, insertion of items of extreme size, being hit with a paddle or crop, or even more serious and dangerous forms of BDSM like hot wax, knife play or breath play (choking).
If you want to know what a specific woman likes, you have to ask her. And if it's anything involving pain, or that could be frightening or interpreted as violent (like choking, slapping, restraints etc) then you need to have a long conversation outside the bedroom about safety, boundaries and safe words (if she's interested in the first place).
For plenty of women, no pain during sex is ‘good pain', because they don't enjoy pain with their pleasure.
For others a small amount of playful pain like a nibbled ear, a hickie/lovebite or a gentle tug of their hair or tap on the bottom is fun, but anything more isn't.
For women into more serious pain they may request a slap across the face, insertion of items of extreme size, being hit with a paddle or crop, or even more serious and dangerous forms of BDSM like hot wax, knife play or breath play (choking).
If you want to know what a specific woman likes, you have to ask her. And if it's anything involving pain, or that could be frightening or interpreted as violent (like choking, slapping, restraints etc) then you need to have a long conversation outside the bedroom about safety, boundaries and safe words (if she's interested in the first place).
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