How to treat a "Slut" here on XHamster
Ok Men Listen here on how to Treat Women on this site:
Even though I have only been on this site for a short time, there is something that has come to my attention regarding how some of the men have been mixing up having fun with a woman willing and desiring to be a slut online here and then treating a woman like a slut In a disrespectful way. For some reason I see this more in younger guys who can't seem to separate erotic talk with degrading talk.
Let's break it down.
1. Just because I want to be an uninhibited slut sexually and speak frankly with you about sex, fucking , sucking and the like....does not mean I want to be disrespected and treated crudely and rudely. Is it confusing to you? Let me give an example: There is a difference between being called Sexy and being called Cunt. As in "Hey Sexy wanna talk about fucking?" As oppose to " Hey Cunt spread Yur fucking legs for my cock like the pig cumslut Yu are". Get it?
2. Don't assume that because I speak and write about cock, cum, fucking and sucking that it means I want to be spoken to harshly, cruelly or like an object and not a woman. Here is a rule of thumb,: If you wouldn't want your sister, daughter or mother spoken to as a worthless slutcow , then you shouldn't speak to the women here or me that way either.
* It doesn't mean that during our sex talking or sex play that certain rougher words are not enjoyed and desired, because they are. It just means overall that I would prefer that Yu just don't open with it. It's is annoying, objectifying and degrading.
** If you wouldn't address a person in real life that way, Don't address a person online that way, unless both desire it.
3. Don't be a Pig. What does that mean? It means don't just start with words indicating Yu want to " get off" then once the woman joins in to assist, you then get off aka cum, aka bust a nut..And without a thank Yu for that or that was fun and/or great, or Yu made me cum....Yu just disappear. You "get off" and then you get off...line.
I'm not Yur paid whore. A Whore gets Yu off and Yu just get going without saying anything . I'm Yur sexual partner helping Yu cum. I deserve more respect than that.
I mean if in real life do Yu just cum and role over and go to sleep or end the sex altogether by leaving Yur partner hanging? Or just leave them by their self to fend for th elves sexually?....
Cuz if Yu do, then Yu are a selfish pig and no wonder Yu are online trying to find a fwb or meet up for sex and not already doing it with someone in real time.
4. Addionally, Don't change Yur tone with me from general chatting to harsh talk at the drop of a dime just because I start talking openly and uninhibitedly about sex with you. Need an example?
Don't change from " Hi how is you day, are you horny? Blah blah" .. To once I say something sexual Yu start saying..." So Slut, Yu gonna drain my balls like the cumslut Yu are or what". There has to be a middle ground, Yu have to feel things out before changing Yur tone of the talk. I am not "on" for Yu at the drop of a hat.
5. Please don't mistake enjoying being open about sex, with being a pigslut that is only worthy of gutter, harsh, mean and ugly talk or names. It doesn't feel nice and unless I or any other woman here is in the mood for such talk and indicated to you as such or unless such talk is within the right context and moment ...it feels like an unwelcomed slap to the senses.
*Just remember we are women first and foremost. Treat us as a person and not an object or a worthless whore not entitled to decent words.
** Hot, raw, sexy talk is fun and enjoyable...but it has to be done in the right context, moment and way. As in all things, we are here to find like minded friends, ....FRIENDS, if Yu wouldn't treat a friend this way, don't treat us ( women, me) that way.
*** We are all here to have fun. To leave the site feeling good. To want to continue chatting with people we meet for more fun. To share our open mindedness in a safe non judgmental way. We are NOT here to feel diminished, belittled or used.
**** As always, if this doesn't apply to how Yu treat women on this site, then don't take this on. If Yu have been less than kind to women here, please take note and try to adapt Yur behavior and be better next time.
ENGAGE! CONNECT! ENJOY! RESPECT! HAVE FUN!!!
Even though I have only been on this site for a short time, there is something that has come to my attention regarding how some of the men have been mixing up having fun with a woman willing and desiring to be a slut online here and then treating a woman like a slut In a disrespectful way. For some reason I see this more in younger guys who can't seem to separate erotic talk with degrading talk.
Let's break it down.
1. Just because I want to be an uninhibited slut sexually and speak frankly with you about sex, fucking , sucking and the like....does not mean I want to be disrespected and treated crudely and rudely. Is it confusing to you? Let me give an example: There is a difference between being called Sexy and being called Cunt. As in "Hey Sexy wanna talk about fucking?" As oppose to " Hey Cunt spread Yur fucking legs for my cock like the pig cumslut Yu are". Get it?
2. Don't assume that because I speak and write about cock, cum, fucking and sucking that it means I want to be spoken to harshly, cruelly or like an object and not a woman. Here is a rule of thumb,: If you wouldn't want your sister, daughter or mother spoken to as a worthless slutcow , then you shouldn't speak to the women here or me that way either.
* It doesn't mean that during our sex talking or sex play that certain rougher words are not enjoyed and desired, because they are. It just means overall that I would prefer that Yu just don't open with it. It's is annoying, objectifying and degrading.
** If you wouldn't address a person in real life that way, Don't address a person online that way, unless both desire it.
3. Don't be a Pig. What does that mean? It means don't just start with words indicating Yu want to " get off" then once the woman joins in to assist, you then get off aka cum, aka bust a nut..And without a thank Yu for that or that was fun and/or great, or Yu made me cum....Yu just disappear. You "get off" and then you get off...line.
I'm not Yur paid whore. A Whore gets Yu off and Yu just get going without saying anything . I'm Yur sexual partner helping Yu cum. I deserve more respect than that.
I mean if in real life do Yu just cum and role over and go to sleep or end the sex altogether by leaving Yur partner hanging? Or just leave them by their self to fend for th elves sexually?....
Cuz if Yu do, then Yu are a selfish pig and no wonder Yu are online trying to find a fwb or meet up for sex and not already doing it with someone in real time.
4. Addionally, Don't change Yur tone with me from general chatting to harsh talk at the drop of a dime just because I start talking openly and uninhibitedly about sex with you. Need an example?
Don't change from " Hi how is you day, are you horny? Blah blah" .. To once I say something sexual Yu start saying..." So Slut, Yu gonna drain my balls like the cumslut Yu are or what". There has to be a middle ground, Yu have to feel things out before changing Yur tone of the talk. I am not "on" for Yu at the drop of a hat.
5. Please don't mistake enjoying being open about sex, with being a pigslut that is only worthy of gutter, harsh, mean and ugly talk or names. It doesn't feel nice and unless I or any other woman here is in the mood for such talk and indicated to you as such or unless such talk is within the right context and moment ...it feels like an unwelcomed slap to the senses.
*Just remember we are women first and foremost. Treat us as a person and not an object or a worthless whore not entitled to decent words.
** Hot, raw, sexy talk is fun and enjoyable...but it has to be done in the right context, moment and way. As in all things, we are here to find like minded friends, ....FRIENDS, if Yu wouldn't treat a friend this way, don't treat us ( women, me) that way.
*** We are all here to have fun. To leave the site feeling good. To want to continue chatting with people we meet for more fun. To share our open mindedness in a safe non judgmental way. We are NOT here to feel diminished, belittled or used.
**** As always, if this doesn't apply to how Yu treat women on this site, then don't take this on. If Yu have been less than kind to women here, please take note and try to adapt Yur behavior and be better next time.
ENGAGE! CONNECT! ENJOY! RESPECT! HAVE FUN!!!
7 years ago
With the anonymity of the net, it's easy to forget basic civility ... especially when one is already aroused. To a degree, it applies to women also. However, not nearly as much as it does to us men.